This YouTube video, created by Dr Becky Bailey, accurately describes the process involved in creating bullies and victims specifically, and child behaviour difficulties generally.
All humans need to feel a sense of belonging and connection.
Bucketfuls of rejection, abandonment, harsh and punitive discipline, and shaming a child, hardens them by creating a sense of hopelessness that they can ever be understood or feel a sense of belonging or connection. When did you ever feel good about yourself when people were shouting at, hitting, or rejecting you?
There is another way of raising our children – with guidance, education, care, nurture, support, and relationship.
Categories: Parenting Skills